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Women told me stories of being hit on at work by “FDBs” (finance douche bags) who hadn’t even bothered to take off their wedding rings, or sitting through Monday-morning meetings that started with stories about who had banged whom (or what) that weekend.In their decade or so of working, they had been routinely hazed by male colleagues showing them ever more baroque porn downloaded on cellphones. In fact, I found barely anyone who even noticed the vulgarity anymore, until I came across a new student. She and I stood by the bar at one point and watched a woman put her hand on a guy’s inner thigh, shortly before they disappeared together.Check out the Kinsey Institute’s “What Do You Consider Sex?” — an Indiana University Welcome Week 2011 short video that asks college students how they define “sex.” After the short intro of student after student who begin their answers with a short pause and a long “uummmmm…,” you see how the students eventually provide varying definitions of sex.The apparent rise of rape on campus is more recent and more disconcerting.A new generation of activists has raised awareness of what appears to be a crisis: Studies show that as many as 25 percent of college women report having been raped, and college administrations have been repeatedly criticized for their anemic responses to alleged assaults.Indeed, as research from the Kinsey Institute, as well as from other scholars, has pointed out, the definition of sex is not as straightforward and universal as one might guess.
I have had many short and quite a few long term relationships. The only regret from casual encounters is the one and done.
being passed around on the students’ cellphones at an Ivy League business-school party last fall was more prank than smut: a woman in a wool pom-pom hat giving a snowman with a snow penis a blow job.
Snowblowing, it’s called, or snowman fellatio, terms everyone at this midweek happy hour seemed to know (except me).
Post-college social interactions for individuals in their 20s or 30s present many new opportunities for hooking up, and with no sign of these trends changing, we need to evaluate how hooking up is connected to psychological health and well-being.
Let’s start with a definition of a hookup, since there’s actually quite a bit of debate about it, although common features include a sexual encounter occurring between two people outside of a dating or romantic relationship (anything from kissing and touching to oral, vaginal, or anal sex).